Some people in your life make you feel low. Their actions lead you to believe that you hold no value or there is some sort of problem in you – financially, about your appearance, knowledge, etc. They make you feel dejected and leave you devoured. It’s better to weed them out from your life. Ruthlessly.
And though you felt that they are closer to you, and hold value in your life. Well, my friend, they aren’t and don’t even deserve to hold any value whatsoever.
Why? Because if someone makes you feel low, it rings enough bells!
If someone, for example, one, say or do things to prove that they are superior to you by saying thing like “Hey, you know nothing and are nothing.”, ” You can’t do it.”, etc.
Two, if they ignore you in front of other people. People that are financially better, better looking, etc., then you, my friend, should leave their company. This is a type of disrespect which says that you are inferior compared to them.
Well, if that happens, you should be ready to give that friend a middle finger salute.
Three, when you share intense things – feeling, issues – with them and they don’t heed to you by remaining busy with their phones, tablet, etc. Run my friend, run. Run at least one light one light year away.
Four, you share your achievements – first guitar jam, the first chapter of your novel, new job, pay hike, etc. – but they give a neutral or negative response.
If someone is not excited about your progress but is feeling negative, on the other hand, they can’t be your friend. Screw them with a drill machine!
Fifth, sixth, seventh and it goes on. I can give you hundreds of these clues but that’s not what I gonna do. I’m here leaving you conscious.
If you find someone sharing any of these characteristics, well, then curate your life by throwing them out.
Now more important thing, you should never be one such person in anyone’s life. In any form! Ever..